“I want my husband back”
Are becoming a little to common, and that is a very sad thing.
Please know that you have my empathy, I do hear your cry.
Having those feelings that you have lost your husband and husband won’t try to work things out!
Leaving you with the big “why” hanging in your mind does make it so hard to see things clearly. It makes it hard for everybody that surrounds you.
If you don’t have children to your husband then “thank god” because this traumatizes them greatly also.
All around the world we are experiencing the same thing, and it is a cycle! That needs to be addressed and educated to be able to change, to gain the “true love” that partnership and marriage should be.
When husbands leave their wives it is usually from the temptation of another woman, which is morally wrong, or it is from a major breakdown in communication, and the inability to understand and provide each others needs, which leads to not spending quality time and enjoying each others company.
The general attitude seems to be, “we are married now, she’ll be right” and give all our attention to everything else in life,
like our friends and family in need, the children,
and even your career as just a couple of examples.
With the examples of what life is like today this is not a surprise, you know, with all the drama on TV, and websites full of temptation, even your own role models may not be the greatest of advisers.
You can get your husband back if that is what you truly desire!
And I can offer you some immediate suggestions to begin that quest,
the first thing I suggest is the most relevant!
Stop the “I want my husband back ” thinking, and begin the “I am getting my husband back” positive thoughts!!!
There is one thing for sure here, and that is that you know that you do still love your husband and really want to have another chance to put things right in your marriage.
What really needs to happen, is that you need to find some happiness right NOW!
The reason for this is simple, not sounding horrible here but please ponder this.
Would you consider going back to someone who is not happy.
Making your husband return is about using:
Breaking the cycle means to evaluate your relationship with complete honesty, and having the courage to admit where you may have gone wrong and what you could have done better.
That’s not letting your husband of the hook for the faults that he may have had, but you need to only address what is yours,
He can and will address his when he feels like he is missing out!
Love is all that brings happiness in this life, it has more worth than any perfume, or designer shoes and the only thing that will bring your husband back is your willingness to learn how to make changes for the well being of your love.
The main fault that drives couple’s apart in communication is expressing our feelings with blame!
For example when you are having a debate with a loved one, the focus in the conversation is always “you” you said this, or you were doing that!
You are blaming me!
The art to effectively communicate with feeling has gone out the door, and using the “you” thing really throws things off what the argument may have been about!
Resulting in anger and resentment from feeling like the blame is all one sided. By concentrating on the word “I” in moments like these helps to keep the focus on how you feel!
When you say I want my husband back, it is a sign of being needy, not that being needy is a bad thing, but it is something that you should be aware of, the last thing you want to get a husband back, is for him to think that!
The best of marriages are those that have hard times, and learn how to get threw them.
Nothing is impossible! you just need to realize your worth, and your husbands worth!
You can reach what your heart truly desire’s…
What I highly recommend now is that you start out learning to repair the wound you have, that may be the restriction stopping you to get back with your husband!
getting husband back
I have helped many friend to rekindle there love,
and there are some basics that all woman who have lost there husbands, from some form or another need to understand,
and have awareness of before there is any attempt to make up with there missing husband.
There are many ladies who are searching for “help to get my husband back” and have lost there men for many different reasons.
And I am sure that many of you are truly hurting very much, and do feel like your life, as you planned it has been turned up side down.
Your husband has left you!
And there are reasons behind his decision for doing so, and no doubt there will be heartache for the two of you due to the separation.
He could have left you for another woman?
Or he could have left you because he felt the love was gone?
Or he could have left due to his own insecurities?
Or perhaps he left because you had an affair!
The only thing that matters for whatever the reason was for your break up, is that you know and realize what that was!
The point is that you want your husband back, and you want the advice that will ensure that you know, YOU have done your best.
There is one very major contributing factor that all get your husband back advisers, and self help programs stipulate, which is the biggest hurdle that any separated or divorced wife, will need to get back together with there husbands.
Most married couples lose interest with each other, those that are strong and listen to there heart, work out how to fall in love again!
Unfortunately not all of us are aware of the fact that you need work to keep the fire alive in any love relationship.
Often couple’s do take there marriage, and each other for granted, thinking that they will always just be there!
Sometimes I believe that we just forget that we get married because we love that person, until that love disappears.
It took experience for me to learn and become wise in relationship psychology, and I went threw years of emotional heartache! There was an old saying that I used to ignore, that goes like this,
“You Don’t Know What You’ve Got, Until Its Gone”
My own ignorance cost me the same kind of pain that you are feeling now!
Always being aware of how much you love someone, no matter what,
will save you from a lot of unnecessary hurtful emotion.
Now, it doesn’t matter why your husband has left you, if you desire to want him back, there are many methods you can learn to achieve that desire.
For making up success, you need to start with your emotional status!
it is so important that you become happy within yourself, before you use any other strategy to get your husband back. And by doing this it will give you the most influence, over him wanting to rekindle the love that you shared.
Along with getting you to that positive state of mind, you need to look at every little fault that your marriage had, and learn to how you can change what you can, so your make up can be successful.
There is no magic wand that can bring him back, but I can tell you now that if you find the courage, and the will to soul search for happiness, your love, and life will become better off