Getting Back With My Ex Wife Back, Was!
“Breaking The Cycle”
I was sick and tired of making up and breaking up!
The fact that getting back with my ex wife was always important to me there were many hurdles that I never new were relevant, if I wanted to end all the pain and arguing that I thought the whole world could hear.
Life sure can be challenging when clouds like this never blow away. I was at a point in my life, when all I could think of was, “I want my wife back from our separation“!
And I do have to say it was one of the worst emotional times I had ever experienced…
There were times where I couldn’t get myself to do anything! Life just sucked, and everything I wanted was gone and lost forever.
It seemed there was no way I was getting back with my ex wife. After a serious breakup with somebody you love, and BELIEVED you could have spent the rest of your life with!
Is the most ALONE feeling EVER…
Depression did indeed have a strong hold on me for a long time! However it DID give me cause to do a MAJOR reflection of why my life had turned out this way…
It is what I had realized within my reflections! That does have the most significance in, I would have to say ALL loving breakups!!!
That is if you are mature, and brave enough to face this reality for what it is…
In my memory, my love problems started way back when I was just 2 years old…
I can remember sitting on my daddy’s knee (crying) and him telling me that I won’t be seeing him for a long time.
He was moving away…
My MOM and DAD had broken up… And then… DIVORCED!
I hardly saw my father after that, and life with my mother was! Well lets just say, that it was a life with lot’s of difficulties, sadness and confusion…
I could and eventually will on this website go into great detail! Because my >Passion< NOW! Is to help people break free from negative love relationships, and reach the the young children of our day any and every way possible!
But I just want to make my point clear! About the,”Breaking The Cycle” Bit..
My Personal Getting Back With Ex My Wife Catastrophic Experience OF Reflection
I ended up with two other “step fathers” to contend with. All my life I was witness to fighting and arguing!!!
- I Saw Breaking Up
- And I saw 5 minute make ups
- I seen it with my parents
- I see it with my sisters and my brothers
- I see it with my cousins
- and uncle’s and aunty’s
- Not to mention my friends
- And YOU!You are here because of it???
And to have a quick look into the past of My soul mates, influence of having a “loving” relationship!
Her parents did stay together, but there was lots of the arguing and alcohol! With perhaps a case of EXTREME confusion for her and her siblings!!!
THE MORAL of the story concludes, with the fact that neither of us grew up with a POSITIVE example of being “INLOVE“!!!???
We both became adults who were Unhappy, and turned to drugs and alcohol, to make life bearable! Our relationship was like a rocky roller-coaster ride, with smooth “patches” and we get off after a crash! Let our wounds get buried, and look at each-other, and get magnified straight back in for another round of making up and breaking up…
We so much loved each other, and NEW 100% in our own hearts that we were meant to be! But as we got older, and the way we managed our relationship!
The roller-coaster ride gets harder and harder…
Getting back with my ex wife was looking very grim! And with all that shaking over the rocky roller coaster (and just leaving the rocks in the way, from making the rail smoother), eventually it all just came, CRASHING DOWN!…
At that time! We HAD two Very beautiful girls🙂 INVOLVED in our HEARTACHE’S!…
And the thing that has had the most IMPACT on me! Was that, what WE were DOING!
Was SHOWING our girls! A different! But Similar if not worse CYCLE of relationship blues…
Looking back on it now! I can say, that all I was doing was “Living in a life” and just doing stuff that “I KNOW” from what I had LEARNED!!!
For me to get back with my wife and girls! We, meaning both parties would have to be HAPPY! No more excuses to make things seem alright.
There is more to life! If you WANT to have more…
I have the ability to clear the rocks off the roller-coaster! To make Getting Back With My Ex Wife A REWARDING Journey.All I needed was to figure out how I could do it.
We all have the ability to create our own road we want to live, as we can all LEARN to make it as smooth as we like. But the journey has got to stop for just a little bit, and a decision does need to be made.
Activate Your own WILL to Make the positive Changes To Make A LOVE WORTH LIVING! The only thing you have got to loose are many more Broken HEARTS!
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We met at 15…. Married at 21…14 years and 3 kids later my marriage was ending. I felt empty.
. I filled September 3rd of 2014. After 60 consecutive days of asking eddie to come home, repeatedly getting ignored and hard reality that i had been served with a restraining order i had no choice…. Divorce was finalized on the 16th of October. 2014. (( also my oldest sons 13th birthday))). My heart was shredded.
The judge said i had been entitled to alamony… I didnt want it…
I said. “your honor. . all i want out of this is hos signature on the the damn paper. ”
Divorce granted.
I didn’t want the divorce…. He left me with no choice
Hi Jessica. Thanks so much for sharing, and I am deeply sorry that you didn’t end up with the results you were after.
I hope you all have got through without to much scaring? Pushing is the worst thing we all tend to do when we are trying to save our marriage but the heart wants and the resistance between that and the mind is hard:)
It’s a battle when the separation isn’t mutual or one feels obligated as i have learned.
Mental stability, Thoughts and things in general with life became more manageable when i realized i didn’t have to know why or even be given a reason that i could understand….
I just had too accept that i couldn’t change it…. And move on.
Thanks a lot for sharing your story. Hats off to you for the great efforts on getting back to your wife and re-building that beautiful relationship again. Through your post you have provided valuable advice.
While reading your post I remembered the movie “FireProof” loving unconditionally despite outright rejection.
Since the Divorce rate keep increasing your post is an asset and I strongly believe your post will help many in saving their marriage and reunite many lives .
You not only addressed the problem but you have also provided with the solution to save the marriage.
Wishing you much success & Millions of thanks for your valuable service!
Paul
Greeting Paul. Thank your for you kind words and Wise input. The problem is even so much more deeper than the level from which has been played out here. But I am trying to explain just the basis.
The solution totally lies in the eyes of hearts of the soul who’s searching.:)
I have many hopes that the words and offering here will indeed help many with getting their love back on track to say the least.
Best Regards Rob
So many never get to the co conclusion that you have, we live in cycles, some God and some bad. We don’t have to live in the bad ones, we make a choice to go with what is familiar but not necessarily comfortable. Congratulations on breaking the cycle of abuse. I pray for you and your ex that you will continue down a more peaceful way in life.
Thank You so much for your kind words Chris! I can tell you that once one can grasp reality, and unless you continue to keep your eyes closed. The only way is up, and I appreciate every prayer that comes my way, I am sure God is sending them my way every time:) My wife is not an ex to me, and every day in every way we get better and better with great thanks from learning the right and wrongs…
Many Blessing Rob
Hi Robert,
It is heartbreaking to see such destruction around you and you feel so helpless. A friend of mine recently got divorced and it was really ugly. Three children are in the middle of this and I feel really sorry for them. I don’t think people realize what they do to their children if they cannot get along in their relationship / marriage.
I am very happy you got back with your wife and managed to resolve some issues. In my opinion the biggest culprit of broken marriages and relationships are the lack of proper communication. It starts with something small and before you know it, it has a snowball effect.
I wish you all the best and will keep an eye out for your updates!
Breaking up and making up with someone you’ve committed yourself to “for better or worse” is always hard… The good part is that usually it’s a period of immense growth and a lot of introspection, if there was genuine love… (which it sounds like you genuinely have loved your wife… ) I know in my experience, that’s how it was for me as well… And I agree, positive changes in a marriage have to start with the will to change… You have to look inward before anyone has any business looking at the faults of those outward…