Prayers to save my marriage seemed to fall on deaf ears at many times, as I was waiting for God to grant me the miracle to put love of me back into the heart of my wife. The thought of my marriage ending was the only thing taking control of my mind and in desperation I was pleading with him, and telling him how much I want my wife back from separation so much I will do anything. For long time I did all I believed that God would like for him to Help save my marriage, and for a long duration I felt let down by God and was loosing sight of love in general.
Was I Doing The Wrong Thing For God To Want To Help Me Win Back My Wifes Love?
Prayers to get my wife back were at the tip of my list but felt that it was’wasn’t enough for God. So I believed he wouldn’t help because I didn’t practice my religion enough so I began to attend Church regularly and tried hard to try hard to tell my spouse of my new beginnings thinking that she may be touched by such events.
Frustrated I was still going nowhere and The Heavenly Father was’wasn’t helping I began to question whether our marriage was right in Gods eyes and perhaps I needed to think a little more deeply and question that?. This however led to a more depressive state as I didn’t want to let go of what I believed was my soul mate.
Was it that I was ignoring all that God was telling me and that my mind power was greater than that from my heart? As it is in our mind where we have Free Will. And in our Hearts we have the connection given through the Holy Spirit. Which perhaps was a crucial understanding I was missing.
Oh Yes I Was Lacking The One Tool God Granted Us To Learn Everything Including How To Save My Marriage.
In the event of truly grasping Gods message and I made a video for my brothers on How Can A Christian Man Win His Wifes Heart Back which is packed with revelation from God to me. The details shared in this video are universal and what is shared has relevance to all the lady’s seeking help from God to rekindle their relationship as well.
Opening your heart to the Spirit of God and closing your mind off from worldly influence you can and will see a dramatically significant in your entire prospectus to your life and all the troubles your need to deal with. The deliverance of the Holy Spirit was a primary objective and purpose of Jesus
Seeking The Holy Spirit Is the Only Help God Has Offered In Crisis And Troubled Marriages.
Jesus Christ Lord and Saviour was granted passage to be present on earth to deliver hope and education of the truth of Gods word. As many know that his journey as a preacher of the gospel didn’t begin until he was 30 years old. It was also a fact that he didn’t begin his ministry until HE was FILLED with the Holy Spirit. As it is he who speaks directly from the will of God to You, Me and anybody who invites him to be present in their heart.
It was this discovery/understanding that I needed to properly hear what God was relaying to me from my prayers to save our marriage. And wake me up from the misery of not getting back with my wife. Loosing my wife was a hard lesson for me to learn but looking back on the journey I have no regret. And I believe it has given me purpose share stories like this to help others in any way possible.
Can I save my marriage with the Holy Spirit? Well still nothing is a certainty however the due change for the likely hood your spouse wanting to acknowledge and believe that you have become worthy of another consideration to reunite in holy matrimony.
God Can Only Help Those Who Help Themselves!
I am sure that some time in your life you would have heard that phrase. Well in terms of him helping get your marriage back on track it becomes paramount! The broken relationship cycle occurs from many different categories, from adultery to physical and or mental abuse but no matter it was you need to identify everything. Realize everything for yourself before God can begin to intervene through the Holy Spirit.
What I found the most difficult thing I found with my “save the marriage review” of what went wrong was hearing the biased stories from everybody around me and deciphering the difference to what I was feeling that God was trying to clarify. If you truly want to receive the help of God to save your marriage you are best to keep it between you and he.
Suggested Prayer To Save A Marriage From Divorce
Praying is something God loves, and as you receive more of the Holy Spirit and your vision becomes clear so that of your prayers. So here is my guideline for you to begin a successful prayer to save your marriage.
Heavenly father thank you for guiding me into your light of divine love and wisdom. I am before you now to plea for you to have mercy on me and bless me with your grace father, thank you God for giving us your son so we can be called to be judged by you. Father I pray upon you today to seek your Holy Spirit to be in me father so I can be closer to you, and be blessed with your will.
God I really love my spouse and feel life to be hard without them. If it be your will please begin your guidance with the Holy Ghost and show me if it should be. Fix me God help me to love by your design and not of this worlds. I give my life to you lord. Thank you, God! In Jesus name. AMEN…
What Does God Say About Marriage And Divorce.
Is very disgraceful if one considers what is happening among the people of God in the church of today. It is very unfortunate we begin to see ministers of the gospel ministering on the top of the pulpit with second to third wives. You see these so-called men of God justifying their wrong practices with empty philosophy that come from human thinking, replacing the truth of God word with their false messages.
6. Since they are no longer two but one, let no one separate them, for god has join them together.
8. Jesus replied,” Moses permitted divorce as a concession to your hard-hearted wickedness but it was not what God had originally intended. (Matthew 19: 6,8)
In this situation, the Pharisee was trying to trick Jesus into choosing in a current theological controversy
One group supported divorce for almost any reason: the other believe divorce should be allowed only in case of marital infidelity. This conflict hinged on how each group interpreted Deuteronomy 24:1-4. But in his answer Jesus focused o marriage, not divorce. He pointed out that God created the relationship of marriage and that He wants those who married to faithful to one another and to remain married. Unfortunately, fallen human nature has made the existence of divorce inevitable. If you are newly married, decide now that divorce will not be an option for you when conflict arises. If you are already considering divorce, try to stop focusing on the reason to get out and concentrate on how you might stay together. Seek counseling and take the road rewards reconciliation: it is not an easy road, but in the long run it is easier than carrying the same problem into second or third marriage. Seek forgiveness for the sake of healing and new growth together.
If you are already divorce, recognize that no act is beyond the scope of God’s forgiveness. If your actions contributed to the divorce, you need to seek God’s forgiveness and be reconciled to him.
Malachi 2:14-15 King James Version (KJV)
14 Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the Lord hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant.
15 And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.
16 For l hate divorce: “say the Lord, the God of Israel. Lt is a cruel as putting on a victim’s bloodstained coat” say the Lord Almighty. So guide yourself; always remain loyal to your wife.
Romans 7:2 King James Version (KJV)
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
Mark 10:11-12 King James Version (KJV) 11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. 12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.